LINE UP YOUR GOALS

If you never go after the life you truly want you will end up having to settle for a life you don't want. Therefore, it makes sense to continue in the direction of your dreams regardless of any battles you face.

Now, I'm not about to preach that it's at all easy to persevere during a rough chapter, which might present a stumbling block between where you are currently and where you would like to be, but, what I will say is that, it is possible to achieve all of your goals irrespective of the inevitable bumpy roads!

REVIEW YOUR LIST
- Are your goals realistic?
- Why do you want to achieve those particular things?
- How will you benefit from each achievement?
- Is your list about you, or someone else?
- When did you decide on this list; what frame of mind were you in?
- If the goals are still relevant, do they need to be reigned in a little?
- What gets you down about the pursuit of this list and why?
- Have you been honest with yourself about your failings and the next steps you need to take?

- Are you moving intentionally?

THINK GOOD, LIVE GOOD
For me personally, the moment that I decided to find a positive in every negative is the second I began to enjoy my life more. It also does the world of good to not front about any hardship you might be facing. Last November I had to ask for a big help from somebody and albeit incredibly difficult and a little embarrassing, real talk, I did it and am so glad that I did because, without their help there would have been a serious glitch in my Matrix! Whilst we have no control over unexpected situations, we can control how we deal with those hurdles. It might not be easy, but, your persistence will pay handsomely!

THANK THEM & MOVE ON
Not everybody who walks into your life is to be offered permanent membership. It is so true that, despite however many months/years a person may be around, they can be gone at any time - be that by their own choosing, or as a result of circumstances - and you would be doing yourself the greatest favour by sending out gratitude into the universe for having had them in your life, and for whatever they may have taught you, then moving on with your own. Allowing yourself to be so caught up with emotions that you begin to spend less and less time focused on what's important will never serve you well. You've got to build resilience.

TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT
The same routine, methods, circles, etc., can hold us back. Branch out; go somewhere you haven't been before, connect with new people, learn a skill that will support your goals and don't wait to have somebody by your side before you take those steps. The world has so much to offer you but, you're not likely to receive these offerings if you stay in the same place, doing the same things, with the same people all the time.

TREAT YOURSELF

Take a break from the grind, now and then, to reward your hard work and progression, or to just breathe! It can be anything from spending time with a friend to a bit of solo shopping, as long as it's an actual break from your hustle and doesn't impact negatively on any other area of your life.

So, revise that list and make sure your evaluation is an honest one. Have an abundance of faith in yourself. Try not to seek approval from anybody else and just do your thing. Be motivated by reminding yourself that the alternative to having what you really want is not an option for you; let this push you to stay consistent with your efforts to achieve your goals. Create a daily schedule for yourself right now and commit to it.

'Tis definitely the season to start being a bit kinder to yourself! 

As I always tell you, you've got this!!

Written by Charley Jai - @charleyjaiuk

All details and information correct and up to date at the time of publishing.

FESTIVE TREATS FOR THE FAMILY!

I hope my Christmas post last week and the week before were useful to you during your preparations. If you're anything like me [and other festive early birds] all the presents have been bought and wrapped, the decorations are in full effect, the tree is rocking its best lights, tinsel and angel [or, whatever your preference might be] and the food menu has already been decided!!

All that's left is to make sure you have a few additional essentials that will add to the joy and beauty of the day. They will also impress your loved ones too, I'm sure...

NIBBLES

Whilst waiting for the feast to be served, hungry tummy's may want a little something to keep them from growling, lol.. Bitesized or finger-food is always a good shout.

TABLE DECOR
My aunt Rita has such a good eye when it comes to dressing her dining table per seasonal event and I absolutely love it. I think it's so nice to do this and, with it, you can also include things to entertain.

SECRET SANTA STOCKING
This isn't something my family do, but, it would be awesome to have a huge stocking by the front door filled with mini surprise gifts that your heart beats can take with them when they leave. I sometimes do this for myself - with a reusable stocking - that I fill with bits and bobs a few months before Christmas eve so that I forget what's inside. Anything from mini skincare treats to Lush goodies!

GAMES
My family have the best time with old school games such as Guess Who and Trivia as well as some of the newer ones available to buy from pretty much all good retail stores. The games/activities provide extra fun, laughter and add to the positive, cosy vibes of the day. 

If you don't celebrate Christmas, which is absolutely fine, I hope whatever you do over the festive days brings you lots of joy and you carry that vibe with you into the new year. God bless x

Written by Charley Jai - @charleyjaiuk

All details and information correct and up to date at the time of publishing.

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