1. Extend a shiny olive
branch [make peace].
I guarantee there is at least one person whom you're missing and would really like to reconcile with. Chances are the feeling is mutual or, if nothing else, by reaching out to them, the positive is that you can stop second-guessing the situation.
2. Get your home in order
[declutter, clean and tidy].
I'm all about having my personal space be one that is comfortable, relaxing, calm and spacious. This means, once every 2 - 3 months I minimalise. Sometimes I blitz my entire home and on the odd occasion I'll focus on one area such as the bookshelf [my fave!]
3. Sign up to a social club, a workshop related to a hobby, or join a fitness class.
While I, myself, have been done with the gym for several months now [another blog post for another time], I strongly recommend taking up a weekly, or fortnightly, activity that encourages positive vibes; gives you an opportunity to meet new people and also support your self-development.
4. Have an entire day to
yourself.
Oh, my actual life! This right here is an absolute must for the good of one's overall well-being!! I cannot stress enough just how important it is to have some time out; to disconnect! If you've been a reader of this blog for some time, you'll be familiar with my fave day of the week where I switch off from everything and everyone to indulge in my Home Spa Experience! Make it a priority to rest and recharge!
5. Go hard for that promotion,
recognition, pay rise, or new career you've been thinking about.
There is everything right with making it known just how valuable you are to your employer! Have a one-to-one chat that is informal while also being clear about your aspirations, your worth and exactly what you want in the immediate future. Or, if you seek a change, put yourself out there by updating your CV [or portfolio] and walking through the doors of prospective employers/opportunities with confidence. You've got this! Go get that level-up!!
6. Get together with a
friend, or loved one, and set some dates to meet in the
New Year too!
I'm defo that person who tends to think ahead and attempts to make future plans with those I care about and want to be in the company of. Sadly, I'm often let down [most are too busy doing whatever they choose to do with their 24 hours each day to meet-up] but, I don't give up because, life is too short for the one thing we are each guaranteed to regret: saying "no" to somebody when we could have said, "yes", especially once that person is gone. Morbid and deep but true! Read point number 6 again!
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Having successfully ticked
my 2019 boxes, I decided to set some additional goals and I encourage YOU to do the same, or to come up with new strategies to achieve anything you feel you've missed out on this year!
Q. What is/was one of your biggest goals for 2019?
I reflect daily and always make notes on areas I believe there is room for improvement. However, one thing I tend to shy away from [somewhat] is working solidly on the more challenging things which I'm aware will have me feel vulnerable. But, sometimes, vulnerability is a must and so, I'm going to push myself to reach out to a certain person albeit [admittedly] with bated breath! Lord, be with me. Literally! I encourage your clart to make a bold move too. BEFORE the year ends!
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